I was upset because it didn’t work out the way I wanted it to
There were problems: with arousal, with an erection, very quickly or at all failed to finish, failed to please the partner, etc. Especially if you noticed the dissatisfaction of a woman or she really made a claim.
He was afraid that she was too sexy for him, and he would “not pull”
her Partner was overly active, urged him to be more active, asked for more and tried to excite him (when he was already tired).
Waiting for the woman herself to show further activity
I’m used to the fact that many modern women usually do this. She believes that if she liked it (and he may doubt it), then she herself will want to continue communicating.
Doubts whether to continue or not further communication
Weighs all the pros and cons. Analyzes the situation, your attitude and feelings, the quality of intimacy, options for further development of relations.
Performed its ” main male function”
From the point of view of biology, he “fertilized” (even if it really did not happen and was impossible), so it makes no sense to strive for a new contact. Especially such behavior is subject to men with higher levels of testosterone (with a strong sexual constitution), prone to frequent changes of partners and who have several in parallel.
Of course, some women are well aware that with some men they will also have only one time and consciously go for it. Disappointment occurs when women expect something more, so it is very important to make the right choice and agree to sex when the relationship reaches the right stage.
Men and women may like or dislike sex about the same, but all other things being equal, their basic need for sex is different. For men, sex is a physiological need, just like sleeping, eating, breathing. The male body is biologically sharpened to pass on its genes to the maximum number of offspring, so all sexual reactions occur faster in men. Women have no direct-biological-need for sex. It, of course, gives a woman physical and emotional pleasure, helps to relieve tension, but sexual activity is not physiologically mandatory for the female body. This is primarily due to the fact that a woman has a biologically more important role, she must choose the most worthy man to give birth to the best children from him. Therefore, it is important that the need for sexual satisfaction does not prevent her from keeping a “sober head”.